✨ The Epiphany Isn’t Coming… It’s a Choice
Part Two of Key 1 - Getting Centered: The real SHERO’s Journey to mastering manifestation is internal — not external AND How I do things to get and stay centered.
Spirit guided me to share this today.
It started as a message to a client who asked me in session: "When does the epiphany come? You know, the one all the blog posts talk about — where they suddenly shift and everything starts manifesting for them? Where is that, so I can do that?"
I was super direct with her — as one of my clients once called it, in a "lovingly ass-kicking kinda way" — and I said:
"The epiphany people talk about — like it’s something that happens to them from the outside — is bullshit. The shift has nothing to do with anything external. The epiphany doesn’t happen to you. YOU make the epiphany happen through one, first, single choice internally to listen to your own soul’s compass."
The more I sat with it, the more I knew it wasn’t just for one person. So I’m sharing it here with all of you — from my heart, Spirit-led, and unfiltered.
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“When does the epiphany come?”
When does the epiphany come and the energy just spontaneously shift?
Here’s the truth:
We are deeply programmed into the Hero’s Journey — the narrative where transformation happens through some external adventure or crisis. But the SHERO’s Journey?
That’s the path women are being called into right now — and it’s an inner one.
It’s not about chasing transformation. It’s about reclaiming your Self through internal shifts.
And that means: The only epiphany is choosing to shift your own thoughts. Choosing to shift your own emotions. Choosing to manage your own energy — no matter what’s happening around you.
The Epiphany is the Choice
You can’t wait for life to calm down. You can’t wait for clarity to strike like lightning. You can’t wait for someone else to shift first.
The real epiphany is this: You choose to be responsible for your own energy. That’s the moment you reclaim your power.
If I let everything I’m navigating right now dictate my energy? Honestly… I’d be numbing out, burned out, and not living in any meaningful way.
So what helps me choose?
There are three practices that support this kind of internal shift — and they’ve been hard-earned through experience, not theory:
1. Meditation. Not because you’re supposed to “clear your mind” — that’s a trash myth. It’s about slowing down enough to observe your thoughts and shift how you feel about them. It’s mental and emotional weight training. It takes time — and it’s always a choice.
2. Slowing down. This is the one that kicks against all our programming. But slowing down is the only way to truly hear yourself and regulate your nervous system. Without it, there’s no space for conscious choice.
3. A real willingness to change. Not just saying “I want to change” — I’m talking about radical, uncomfortable honesty with yourself. This kind of change isn’t performative — it’s transformative.
An Invitation for You
The next time something activates you — pause.
Before you vent. Before you post your woes or your anger on social (sharing amplifies your unmanaged energy through others' focusing on it!). Before you spiral into the loop.
Don’t abandon yourself.
Ask:
How do I want to experience this? I can’t change what’s happening — but I can choose how I respond. What energy do I want to embody while I move through this?
From that place — from that grounded energetic responsibility — you decide if you want to speak, share, or simply be.
Only from that space of conscious choice do you hold any true power.
Ready to stop waiting and start choosing?
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